My story
I was a teacher, working long hours and supporting my children through university when I was diagnosed with multifocal lobular breast cancer. After hopping off the roller coaster of surgery, chemo and radiation, I researched and researched and researched. I needed a plan. I needed to feel I had some control over my life. I was hatching a way to move forward, heal and support my body after the devastation that this treatment left in its wake.
I overhauled my lifestyle areas of nutrition, sleep, exercise, immune system support and circadian rhythm. I reduced my toxic load; changing to natural and chemical free products for household cleaning and laundry products, body care products, make up, and skin care. I reduced my EMF and blue light exposure and so on. My poor body had been blasted with weapons of mass cell destruction that killed those cancer cells but also my healthy ones.

Photo credit: Anna Peirce
I was thorough; my life was at stake. I had too much to live for and do. The effects of stress and the mind body connection kept throwing itself at me and I kept ignoring it. I didn’t get stressed (Ha ha; I wonder who was in denial?)
Finally, I succumbed to that nagging thought in the back of my head … ’what about your emotional internal baggage; it's a burden, and it's toxic?’. That was a scary contemplation. There were places I just didn’t want to go.
Months earlier I had printed off an Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT) script more commonly known as tapping. It was sitting amongst the pile of other research gathering dust when it caught my eye.
I read it thinking ‘this is too weird to help' but I gave it a go anyway.
I had nothing to lose. I had tried meditation, yoga, followed supposed 'gurus' on healing, but nothing was really cutting the mustard. From here, I got my hands on a book and started working some ‘magic’. That’s how it felt. I started on some aches and pains and everyday stresses. I got in touch with a practitioner who held my hand through some of my ‘bigger’ stuff that was too scary for me to do alone. I was no longer fighting and swimming against the current; I began to be in flow, finding hope, trust and a future.
That was it! I felt and saw the changes in my mind and body. I had to know more and so started my journey to become a certified EFT Tapping practitioner. Little did I know that EFT was the vehicle for me to transform my thoughts, emotions and beliefs: my health and my life.
I have choices now. How I respond to what life offers me, how I see the world, how I treat and talk to myself. My mind is no longer running the show. My body and my heart have the biggest, loudest voices.
I have ‘tapped’ into the mind body heart connections to see the choices I always had.
My choice to lovingly connect my mind and body means I now live my life, my way. My gratitude, love, joy and wonder buckets are replenished regularly with my grandchildren, walks along the beach or in nature, riding my favourite paths, friends, exploring our diverse planet or working with clients.
A way forward
The choice is ours.
What a privilege to now use EFT to help others shift a heaviness that they have struggled to move unsuccessfully. I love this work and the transformation that understanding the Heart Map process and working with the mind body heart connection bring.
I have the heart centred way to let go judgements and to find forgiveness that lights the way for more love, joy and gratitude in life. It is possible to move through and past the tough times with hope, power, and acceptance. I can light the way in safety, if you are ready to get curious, do the work and find your inner power.
My qualifications
2024 Certified Mastering Therapeutic Presence: Embodying Grace HeartMap / EFT Coach with Dr Lori Leyden
A Current Working with Vulnerable People card
2023 Certified and accredited Level 1, Level 2 & Level 3 EFT and Matrix Reimprinting with EFT & Matrix
Reimprinting Academy (EFTMRA)
2018 Level 1 and 2 training Dr Peta Stapleton Evidence Based EFT
Trauma informed EFT training with Dr Peta Stapleton
2000-2003 Bachelor of Education

